One of popular bloggers, a Russian speaking young woman who has lived in the UK for more than 7 years shared her ideas of what British men are really like here http://pora-valit.livejournal.com/1074005.html
I have done some translation and sharing it with you here
About
English men
In the times on Soviet
Union there was this belief that every foreigner is nearly a prince charming.
This delusion could be justified by some objective grounds, including The Iron
Curtain and the like ones. But I have noticed that this myth about foreign men
being exclusive is still quite common and that marrying a foreign man is still
seen as being very prestigious.....
English men cheat on
their wives or girlfriends less often than Russians. But it's not because of
high moral standards, it's just all about the principle of so called "fair
play". It's bad to steal something that doesn't belong to you. Plus
English men are inert and passive, they seldom reflect on feelings and love
matters, they loathe changing their usual way of life, and having an affair is
simply very pricey when it comes to spending time, finance and energy. It's
also very pricey to leave your wife and get a divorce.
English men are not
very fussy about their female partners' appearances. It's quite common here in
the UK to see a very handsome good-looking man with an unattractive woman.
Sometimes their women are really ugly. It's not because all English women are
very ugly and English men simply have no choice. It's due to the fact that this
cult of appearance of being attractive isn't very much developed in the UK.
What is more important - English men tend to choose the easiest option, being
inert and passive, they think that ugly women are an easy target and much
easier to "lay" and to please....
English men drink, drink
really a lot, but they seldom have days of drinking...
Both English men and
women are very shy and reserved, the worst nightmare for an English person is
finding themselves in a embarrassing situation. All the communication codes
here are arranged the way to avoid embarrassing situations and even to prevent
such situations from happening...4
When an English man
falls in love though keeping in mind their cold temperament it's hardly
possible to use this phrase so let's say - when an English man starts feeling
attracted to a woman he usually finds himself in a pickle. Getting out of this
pickle is possible in two ways:
1. Irony and sarcasm.
Joking and taking the mickey out of a woman. It's like when you are in a
primary school - if you fancy a girl you simply beat her up with your school
bag. The same happens with English men "in love". They express their
interest towards a woman by laughing at her and taking the mickey out of her...
2. Bare rudeness and
offence. It's a paradox but that's true that it's much easier for an English
man to get very drunk and tell a woman he fancies somewhat like "Fancy a
shag?" rather than ask her out for a real date. A date is too straightforward
and direct, it speaks clearly and openly of your feelings and intentions. While
suggesting shagging isn't that embarrassing and means somewhat like "I was
just passing by and I had an urge and you can just work nicely as a
sperm-accepter!"
If an English man is
brave enough to ask for a date you should not expect anything exciting. They
are not an impulsive people and hide their feelings, sticking to a boring and
trivial scenario. If he invites you to go out to the cinema that's pretty
interesting. If he suggests going to the theatre - it's something extraordinary!
Has he bought you flowers? What a real charmer! A usual date means going for a
drink in a pub or for a coffee, for a dinner at a restaurant what is very rare.
And then you have to split the bill. English men seldom pay for a woman. If he
pays for the dinner he expects to have sex this very night.
It's not a custom to
take a woman home after a date. If a man does take a woman home he expects sex.
English men are so
lazy, passive and inert that it looks really ridiculous. If you have exchanged
phone numbers with an English man he often starts arranging the first date and
then he says something like "Look, I am knackered, you'd better come to my
place and we cook dinner together" which basically means "I don't
want to go out anywhere I'd rather you come to my place and we have quick sex
in an old "bam-wham-thank you ma'm" style.
That is it:) Enjoy))) 
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